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My Sister is set To Marry An Osu Man, About To Commit a significant Taboo by way of TheSkyIsBlue: 8:46pm On Nov 23 My Sister is about To Commit a major Taboo All in the identify Of MarriageHello Nairalanders!

Please ignore any typographical or grammatical error. I just are looking to pour it out the manner it's in my coronary heart.

i'm critically confused and involved about what's happening in my family unit and that i will appreciate your candid counsel.

There is this guy my sister has been in a relationship with for over seven years now. so he in fact asked her hand in marriage and determined to return see my fogeys for introduction, about some months in the past. My household decided to take their time to discover greater about the guys family history as is required in Igbo way of life.

After several questions requested, my household came to find out that the guy is an Osu (an outcast). On knowing this, all and sundry in my family unit told my sister to reduce ties with him and discontinue the connection because it is a large taboo to get married to an Osu in my vicinity . in case you do, no friend or buddy will attend your marriage ceremony or even have anything to do with you once more.

however my sister refused to hearken to anybody claiming she definitely loves the guy, that they have been together for a really long term and that she is not getting more youthful anymore (mind you, she is in her early thirties). every person (my folks and clan individuals) tried to talk her out of it however she nonetheless didn't pay attention.

After an awful lot power and her continues insistence, my dad determined to give them his advantages, youngsters against his desire (my dad is truly no longer truly deep into culture). Now the man has achieved all the common rights and paid for her dowry. Their wedding is developing soon.

but the difficulty now's, in line with culture and from what I heard, if she changed into allowed to go with the guy without my dad giving them his advantages, the stigma would have just been on her and she alone would h ad been considered Osu, on the grounds that she insisted to continue with the marriage. but now that my dad has given them his advantages, it is considered that every body (her siblings) will also have that hyperlink of Osu too. except if she come to a decision to place an conclusion to the relationship and discontinue with the marriage, which I don't feel my sister is able to do.

i'm basically involved and depressed about it, cause I do not desire anything with the intention to have an effect on me the next day once I want to get married just as a result of my sister's mistakes.

i will be able to truly like to get opinions and sincere tips above all from folks that are widely wide-spread with tradition, cause i am significantly bothered. Thanks!

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Re: My Sister is about To Marry An Osu Man, About To Commit a significant Taboo by using Mindfulness: 8:48pm On Nov 23

Your sister is a hero. She has my blessings too. You people should still try and live within the 21st century. Kuddos to your dad as neatly.

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Re: My Sister is about To Marry An Osu Man, About To Commit a significant Taboo via RoyalBlu(f): eight:52pm On Nov 23 Osu in 2019

Even the ancestors have moved on.

She'll be exceptional.

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Re: My Sister is about To Marry An Osu Man, About To Commit a significant Taboo with the aid of thorpido(m): 8:52pm On Nov 23

what is Osu?Are they some variety of aliens?Why on the earth would americans still sustain with this backward theory?

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Re: My Sister is about To Marry An Osu Man, About To Commit a significant Taboo by means of madone: 8:52pm On Nov 23

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Re: My Sister is about To Marry An Osu Man, About To Commit a major Taboo by means of fieryy(f): 8:53pm On Nov 23 'i'm really concerned and depressed '

Pele

however here is the twenty first century

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Re: My Sister is about To Marry An Osu Man, About To Commit a serious Taboo by using Heartbender: eight:54pm On Nov 23 Take down this iniquitous post. you are boldly concerned about an illegality. If the authorities see this your family can get into large crisis. Take it down before a criminal prosecution begin in opposition t your family

TheSkyIsBlue:howdy Nairalanders!

Please ignore any typographical or grammatical error. I just wish to pour it out the style it is in my coronary heart.

i am significantly puzzled and involved about what's happening in my household and i will respect your candid tips.

There is that this guy my sister has been in a relationship with for over seven years now. so he really asked her hand in marriage and decided to return see my parents for introduction, about some months in the past. My family decided to take their time to discover extra in regards to the guys family historical past as is required in Igbo way of life.

After a number of questions requested, my household came to find out that the guy is an Osu (an outcast). On realizing this, every person in my family unit advised my sister to cut ties with him and discontinue the connection because it is a large taboo to get married to an Osu in my location . in case you do, no friend or friend will attend your wedding or even have the rest to do with you once more.

however my sister refused to hearken to any one claiming she basically loves the man, that they have been collectively for a extremely long term and that she is not getting more youthful anymore (intellect you, she is in her early thirties). all and sundry (my fogeys and clan participants) tried to talk her out of it however she still failed to listen.

After a lot power and her continues insistence, my dad decided to supply them his blessings, besides the fact that children in opposition t his hope (my dad is actually now not in fact deep into tradition). Now the guy has performed the entire normal rights and paid for her dowry. Their wedding is coming up quickly.

but the difficulty now could be, according to subculture and from what I heard, if she changed into allowed to go along with the man with out my dad giving them his advantages, the stigma would have simply been on her and he or she by myself would we re regarded Osu, in view that she insisted to proceed with the wedding. however now that my dad has given them his benefits, it is considered that everyone (her siblings) will even have that hyperlink of Osu too. except if she come to a decision to place an end to the connection and discontinue with the marriage, which I do not consider my sister is able to do.

i am in reality concerned and depressed about it, cause I do not need the rest as a way to affect me tomorrow when I wish to get married just because of my sister's blunders.

i will truly like to get opinions and trustworthy suggestions peculiarly from folks that are customary with subculture, trigger i am significantly bothered. Thanks!

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Re: My Sister is ready To Marry An Osu Man, About To Commit a major Taboo via Rasmega(m): 8:59pm On Nov 23 Africans and their stupid primitive thinking.

Edit: Some people haff quoted me, giving factors and some nations where caste device, racism is still in follow.

For me, I don't care bout others. We should start altering the way we think. Some archaic traditions needs to be dropped and stopped.

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Re: My Sister is set To Marry An Osu Man, About To Commit a serious Taboo by using Cuccitini(m): 9:03pm On Nov 23

Op u and ur fam shud sensible up it 21st century

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Re: My Sister is set To Marry An Osu Man, About To Commit a major Taboo via mezarddinny: 9:09pm On Nov 23 Igbos and discrimination in 21st century.

They shout marginalisation when it's from other people but do worse to themselves

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Re: My Sister is about To Marry An Osu Man, About To Commit a major Taboo with the aid of Asquare84(m): 9:15pm On Nov 23

I suppose I heard that this osu forged have been prohibited in Ibo land, my pal you're a Christian please do not discriminate in opposition t any individual

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Re: My Sister is ready To Marry An Osu Man, About To Commit a major Taboo with the aid of lilwetdick: 9:20pm On Nov 23

Rasmega:Africans and their stupid primitive considering.

i am sure you'll additionally see a person which will all the time say africans are primitive

in asia, there is caste techniques, i guess it is okay

many europeans and american citizens are racists, i bet they aren't primitive in pondering stupidly

suddenly as an african does similar stuff, all africans are primitive and feel stupidly.

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Re: My Sister is set To Marry An Osu Man, About To Commit a major Taboo by way of Anonymous29: 9:22pm On Nov 23

have at all times heard 'osu' even in movies. however I even have on no account come to take into account it. Please what makes one an osu?

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Re: My Sister is set To Marry An Osu Man, About To Commit a serious Taboo by lilwetdick: 9:23pm On Nov 23 abeg who cares about subculture and stigma.

individuals may still live their lives, the more we put obstacles to the way individuals behave the more we make life more advanced and depressing

love knows no boundary...Bleep way of life, people may still be with whoever they need to be with

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Re: My Sister is set To Marry An Osu Man, About To Commit a significant Taboo through Pubichairs(m): 9:24pm On Nov 23 Man...u still agree with in superstition?

u lack formal schooling..go fuçk ur self mate..

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Re: My Sister is set To Marry An Osu Man, About To Commit a major Taboo through iTearHerToto: 9:28pm On Nov 23 a wise man blesses his daughter and a befuddled son is lamenting unceasingly

Pukes

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Re: My Sister is ready To Marry An Osu Man, About To Commit a serious Taboo through Quality20(m): 9:28pm On Nov 23

pls who can get me d particulars of ds op and his family, I wanna make some cash and name as a brand new lawyer

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Re: My Sister is ready To Marry An Osu Man, About To Commit a serious Taboo through eleojo23: 9:41pm On Nov 23 OP, sorry but I aid your father and sister one hundred%!

if you guys are Christians or enlightened/educated individuals, i'm stunned that you just nonetheless take the osu aspect critically.

What you do not accept as true with has little vigor over you.for example, white men entered shrines and stole the gods and took them to Europe for museum monitor yet they did not die.

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Re: My Sister is set To Marry An Osu Man, About To Commit a major Taboo with the aid of tchidi066(f): 9:44pm On Nov 23

truly, this is laughable, i agree with op is knowledgeable and exposed, why nonetheless consider in such barbaric traditions, osu or no osu, if i find my betterhalf, am going ahead. What you should be involved about is how he's gonna deal with ur sis in matrimony...intellect you i am igbo

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Re: My Sister is ready To Marry An Osu Man, About To Commit a serious Taboo by way of LadySarah(f): 9:54pm On Nov 23

in the event you say swear by using Amadioha,they are going to say they are xtains.Oya love your neighboyr as your self,you say ur fellow man or woman is an outcast.Is it no longer the bible that noted''thou shall now not call anything else unclean.''I wish the guy don provide your sis belle so you guys will do ur worst!O ginidi?

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Re: My Sister is ready To Marry An Osu Man, About To Commit a significant Taboo via chidiebereuzoma(m): 9:56pm On Nov 23

tchidi066:basically, here is laughable, i believe op is expert and exposed, why still agree with in such barbaric traditions, osu or no osu, if i find my betterhalf, am going ahead. What be sure to be concerned about is how he's gonna deal with ur sis in matrimony...intellect you i am igbo

hi identify sake,Is that you just in your dp?

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Re: My Sister is set To Marry An Osu Man, About To Commit a serious Taboo by using Fuqman(m): 9:58pm On Nov 23

This selected tradition should still be eradicated with all due respect. we are all human beings and we all deserve equal freedom. Your sister is a woman with a good looking mind.

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Re: My Sister is about To Marry An Osu Man, About To Commit a major Taboo by Lamasta(m): 10:00pm On Nov 23

Whom God has blessed no man can curse...God bless the union and God bless your father tooOur people must move out of darkness into light

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Re: My Sister is about To Marry An Osu Man, About To Commit a serious Taboo by LilMissFavvy(f): 10:01pm On Nov 23

Osu this, osu that...... stupid approach in twenty first century, so so stupid. Bullshiitt. mind your company and depart your sister on my own. Thank God she has a father who is not deep into tradition.

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Re: My Sister is set To Marry An Osu Man, About To Commit a significant Taboo with the aid of sapoyoro(m): 10:15pm On Nov 23

TheSkyIsBlue:hi there Nairalanders!

Please ignore any typographical or grammatical error. I just need to pour it out the style it is in my heart.

i'm seriously at a loss for words and worried about what's occurring in my household and i will respect your candid information.

There is that this man my sister has been in a relationship with for over seven years now. so he basically asked her hand in marriage and decided to come back see my fogeys for introduction, about some months ago. My family decided to take their time to find out greater concerning the guys family unit background as is required in Igbo lifestyle.

After a few questions asked, my family unit got here to find out that the guy is an Osu (an outcast). On knowing this, each person in my family instructed my sister to cut ties with him and discontinue the relationship since it is a huge taboo to get married to an Osu in my location . if you do, no family member or pal will attend your marriage c eremony or even have anything to do with you once again.

however my sister refused to hearken to anyone claiming she in reality loves the man, that they've been together for a very long time and that she isn't getting more youthful anymore (intellect you, she is in her early thirties). all and sundry (my folks and clan contributors) tried to talk her out of it but she nevertheless failed to hear.

After much pressure and her continues insistence, my dad determined to give them his benefits, besides the fact that children towards his wish (my dad is in fact no longer truly deep into culture). Now the guy has accomplished the entire ordinary rights and paid for her dowry. Their marriage ceremony is arising quickly.

however the issue now is, according to lifestyle and from what I heard, if she became allowed to go with the man with out my dad giving them his advantages, the stigma would have simply been on her and he or she on my own would have been regarded Osu, seein g that she insisted to continue with the wedding. however now that my dad has given them his advantages, it is regarded that anybody (her siblings) will even have that hyperlink of Osu too. except if she decide to put an conclusion to the connection and discontinue with the wedding, which I don't consider my sister is able to do.

i'm in fact worried and depressed about it, trigger I do not need the rest for you to affect me the next day once I need to get married just as a result of my sister's mistakes.

i will really want to get opinions and trustworthy assistance particularly from those that are general with tradition, trigger i am significantly stricken. Thanks!

Igbo Amaka!

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Re: My Sister is ready To Marry An Osu Man, About To Commit a significant Taboo with the aid of tchidi066(f): 10:19pm On Nov 23

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Re: My Sister is set To Marry An Osu Man, About To Commit a major Taboo by johnkey: 10:21pm On Nov 23

y'all are dull, believing shït like this during this age .

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Re: My Sister is ready To Marry An Osu Man, About To Commit a serious Taboo through bomasek(m): 10:28pm On Nov 23

Thunder scatter your yansh@Op

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Re: My Sister is ready To Marry An Osu Man, About To Commit a serious Taboo by using Kobicove(m): 10:32pm On Nov 23

TheSkyIsBlue:hiya Nairalanders!

Please ignore any typographical or grammatical error. I just want to pour it out the manner ...way of life, trigger i'm significantly bothered. Thanks!

OP, i am no longer bound your sister's choice to marry an Osu will rub off on you in spite of the fact that your father gave his blessing.

despite the fact, I suppose you do have a correct to be anxious

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Re: My Sister is about To Marry An Osu Man, About To Commit a major Taboo with the aid of Wane2(m): 10:36pm On Nov 23

here is my opinion although however Fück your dull caste gadget, she should still be free to marry anyone, if any issues arise then she'll face it afterall it was her choice, if i used to be your sister i'd reduce ties with such backward family members. You just isn't bothered about such issues. I do not know why americans at all times see the deserve to classify americans after which hate them for falling into that type. you're black, I hate blacks, you're white I hate whites, you are Igbo I hate Igbos, you might be Hausa I hate Hausas, yada yada you're from Kaduna I hate Kaduna, you are Nigerian I hate Nigerians, Fücking dull each individual is entertaining in case you need to hate, hate that individual don't hate an entire group because of one individual. God I've stated too lots however it's so traumatic seeing people spread hate everywhere. Thank God I grew up in a metropolis where your village classification doesn't count, be a Prince or be a Pauper no person could be aski ng you the place you belonged to in your village. If my village had such traditions then i might deliberately discover a woman during this type, and provides everybody who opposes the middle finger. Emancipate your self from traditions that discriminate towards other americans#Iamfree

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