What to Do After You Say "I Do": Man dumps fiancÃ©e for their marriage ceremony planner weeks earlier than massive day

James Routledge, 30, left his spouse-to-be to start a relationship with work colleague Paige Hannington, 27,(appropriate) who had helped the couple organise and plan their wedding

A devastated bride says she is planning to sell her marriage ceremony gown after her fiancé left her for their newlywed marriage ceremony planner.

Donna Bettiss, 28, from Horsham, West Sussex changed into left heartbroken after partner James Routledge, 30, dumped her simply weeks before their large day in 2018.

James left Donna to beginning a relationship with work colleague Paige Hannington, 27, who had helped the couple organise and plan their wedding.

application associate coordinator Donna, is now selling her unworn £1,800 marriage ceremony gown to do away with 'unhealthy memories' after gaining knowledge of that Mr Routledge turned into now engaged to Ms Hannington – who she says become married when she began her relationship with him.

James and his new fiancée spoke of they received together following a night out, when they both confessed they have been unhappy with their relationships and had emotions for each other.

Ms Hannington says she and James are tremendously chuffed' but she 'desires Donna happiness'

Donna listed the £1,800 Sophia Tolli 'Monte' sleeveless tulle and sequin dress on facebook for £600 two weeks in the past.

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Ms Hannington said she and pass over Bettiss hadn't spoken when you consider that the wedding changed into cancelled and introduced 'it could be difficult [for Donna] to listen to that she and James are particularly happy' however she 'wished her happiness'.

despite the fact, Donna observed she felt 'absolutely betrayed' via somebody she regarded a friend.

She noted: 'i used to be distraught that someone I knew and trusted and became discussing such a crucial time in my lifestyles with, could try this to me.

'besides the fact that children, the style I feel now is terribly paranoid to discuss how incredible my relationship is with some other girl. She totally destroyed my self assurance.

Donna Bettiss, 28, from Horsham, West Sussex became left devastated

'When James determined she turned into who he desired there was nothing I could do however let him go.

'I didn't trigger them any complications or are attempting to cease them progressing. I even saw them on an evening out but I just left them to it.

'I wasn't going to make their evening out with their chums awkward, so I stored my distance and saved my friends faraway from asserting anything else to them.

On the resolution to sell the dress, she delivered: 'It [the dress] has been at my uncle's house except recently, but now it's striking in my wardrobe.

Donna Bettiss is eager to put off the dress

'i can't keep it, there are too many unhealthy reminiscences. I desperately need it long gone if I want to move ahead and rebuild my life.'

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The advert reads: 'Open to presents, certainly not worn. wedding changed into cancelled as a result of [redacted] fiancé.

'Desperately want long past, cost me £1800, had it a yr and it's a constant reminder.

'Sophia Tolli dress size sixteen never altered.'

Donna and James had met in March 2011 at a nightclub in Horsham and here day she searched for him on social media and sent him a message.

Donna Bettiss, 28, says she notion her fiancée James Routledge's work good friend Paige Hannington was a blessing when she provided marriage ceremony tips over cocktails (photograph: Kennedy information and Media)

Six months later, the pair moved in collectively and Mr Routledge then proposed and offered her with a diamond cluster engagement ring.

Donna mentioned: 'I straight fell for him and we quickly spent day-after-day collectively. After a couple of months he instructed me how in love with me he become.'

The pair have been happily engaged, buying a two-bed end-of-terrace condo the place they lived in conjunction with her cat Sammie.

Immersed in marriage ceremony planning, Donna would always meet newly-married Ms Hannington, who consistently offered her marriage ceremony planning counsel over cocktails.

In September 2017, Donna picked up her marriage ceremony costume.

but two months later in November 2017, she became shocked when her fiancé delivered the bombshell information that he didn't love her anymore and the wedding was off.

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